CARDS & LETTERS

Psychic Counseling by Kyler James

 

A few years ago, I was invited to the Harvard Club to hear a lecture given by Hildegard Behrens, the soprano, on Wagner’s Ring Cycle.  To my delight, her approach to the four Ring operas was through the four elements of Astrology, as she called them.  You should have seen the looks on those Harvard Club faces as Ms. Behrens elaborated on her thesis!  Das Rheingold, she said, represents water; Die Walküre, air; Siegfried, earth; and Götterdämmerung, fire.  It was wonderful to hear an artist of her stature admit to what is so basic and primal in all the arts.

 

The four elements are with us always:  in the four suits of the Tarot, the four seasons, the four directions, the four movements of a symphony.  Anything that exists in a group of four probably has these attributions.  The Wizard of Oz is my favorite example.  Dorothy represents earth (the home, the hearth, the physical), the Scarecrow represents air (the mind, the intellect), the Lion, fire (energy, courage, will) and the Tin Man, water (emotion, the heart).  These characters always had the qualities of their individual elements—they just needed the Wizard’s validation; they needed society’s acknowledgment of who they really were.

 

Isn’t that like most of us?  We need our diplomas, certificates, licenses, medals and degrees.  Without these, who are we?  We’re naked as air, formless as fire, sinking in water, lost on earth.  Oh, the anxiety of it all!  That’s when we’re truly free, and that’s when we discover the fifth element, the element of spirit.  As Paul Tillich said, “The courage to be is rooted in the God who appears when God has disappeared in the anxiety of doubt.”  There’s The Wizard of Oz for you.

 

On a more practical plane, thank you for your letters.  I’m receiving quite a few, so please be patient.  I’ll try to answer as many as I can.  Here’s today’s:

 

Kyler—

 

Please help me!  My life is upside-down, messed up!  I’ve been very depressed, confused, had bad thoughts about lots of things.  I don’t know what I should do.  I’m [a] jobless, lazy, big-time procrastinator.  No lover, my room is forever a mess.  I feel out of control and would like to know if you could tell me if the Tarot cards have a positive objective for me to be hopeful about.  My name is Billy da Kid.  My birthdate is 10/19/71.  Take care, I’ll try to keep it together!  God bless you!

 

Billy da Kid, you are the Prince of Wands and you are meant to shine in life.  The prince refers to your Libra mind, and the wands to the fire in your heart.  You wrote this a month ago, included your number, and I called to see if you were all right.  You then confessed that you were recovering from a suicide attempt.  The King of Swords in your past shows where this self-attack came from.  An abusive father tried to force you to be something you weren’t.  (I recently read this to you over the phone and you told me that this was true.)  But now, in the present, the Princess of Wands shows you beginning to build a new life, one that is “suited” for you.  The cards show you and your father going in opposite directions.

 

The Prince of Swords in your near future shows a lot of mental figuring out of your past.  You told me you’re seeing a therapist, which is very important; there’s going to be a rehashing of your mind until you really understand yourself, until you are able to separate your father’s mind from yours.

 

Once you’ve gotten yourself under control, I see a new you emerging in the suit of love:  the 3 of Cups, Abundance.  I would definitely continue the work with your therapist, for by the time you’re 25, I see you not as Billy da Kid, but as Billy da Man, who is able to have both love and work in his life.  Try to think positively, Prince of Wands!  You’re worth it.